A Return to Home

For months I had ignored all the warning signs that I was being betrayed and something was really off track. A Facebook Message from the other woman’s sister, a letter from the IRS demanding $25,000 in fines from our business and mounting credit card bills.

But still, I took no action. Even when the information should have been my rock bottom, it wasn’t.

I was frozen, and instead of taking action, I continued to be nice. I continued to be the people-pleasing wife and business partner which blocked me from asking for what I wanted and needed! It’s hard to imagine now, but I even packed his remaining clothing and items before he moved out and ate lunch with him for ONE last time pretending that we were friends, and everything was okay.

It took my body finally screaming at me to pay attention. My health took a hit which I literally could no longer ignore. An autoimmune issue was ignited and each time I looked in the mirror, the inflammation on the inside (the anger, the resentment, the ignoring my own needs) was showing up as burnt skin on the outside calling out my attention full blast.

I found my solution by chance. Master Coach & Author Nancy Levin was part of a Women’s 40+ Symposium that I registered for on a whim. At the time, I was enrolled, and several months into, an Amazon Seller Training program that wasn’t working well for me. Nancy’s strength, clarity, and authenticity, however, resonated with me. She represented the kind of woman that I had dreamed of becoming: Empowered, confident and inspiring to others. I signed up for Nancy’s Coach Training program a couple of months later and took the first of many steps on the path of reinvention: Believing in and speaking up for my needs and desires and becoming that version of me that I dreamed of.  

I now help people like you recover from the trance of people-pleasing and keeping things “nice” so you can find the confident, joyful and purposeful person you were always meant to be.